Wednesday, October 18, 2023

Thinking Thoughtfully

Unpleasant Thoughts are like burning coal. You can choose to 1. Either get burnt and wounded by holding  on to it...

2. Either fight and argue with it ...

3. Or drop it as soon as they are created...

How will you drop and discard it ...in other words flip it..
Here's how...

When the unpleasant thought and the emotion attached to it comes up, be aware that the unpleasantaries are surfacing...Then,

1. Divert your mind to some pleasant events that occurred in your life ...This will fill you up with love and joy...

2. You can also chant a mantra. Chanting calms the mind and brings in inner peace...

3.  Take a deep breath and focus on your breathing. Inhaling very slowly through the nose and exhaling slowly through the mouth...This will calm you down and help focus to come back in the moment...

Do not forcefully try and stop the negative thoughts..

Each time a negative thought comes up, be aware,  take a deep breath come back to the moment  or chant.

Such repeated acts will help condition the mind and over a period of time their frequency will decrease.

Love and light,
Abundant blessings 🙌 

Friday, June 23, 2023

Bull fight



There were two bulls...
1...Despair,doubt, darkness and 
2...Hope, faith, light.
Both were fighting..
Which one do you think wins???

Did you select the 2nd one??
Incorrect answer..
Correct answer is..."The one who you feed wins"

Dear ones, make an attempt each day to be positive in your speech, thoughts and emotions...

Start your day with Positive Affirmations ...
I am worthy
I am healthy
I am wealthy
I am happy
I am kind and compassionate
I am generous
I am ready to face all challenges coming my way today

Be happy today and always...

Sunday, May 7, 2023

Healing Prayer..

 Take  a  deep breath and exhale slowly, Relax.

Smile at your heart breathing slowly and continuously.

Visualize pink light coming from your heart and radiating all around you.

Now say I am now ready and willing to release all that does not serve me from every level, layer, area of my being.

God please locate the origin of my thoughts and feelings through all generations across all dimensions of time past, present and future pertaining to my knees.

Please heal every incident until I am filled with inner peace,  love and light.

Please help me to forgive myself, every person, place and event which contributed to my present condition.

I am sorry for being unconscious of my beliefs.

Please forgive me for I know not where the beliefs  origined from.

I thank you for erasing and deleting them from my life and for making me whole again.

I am sorry
Please forgive me
I love you ,  Thank you.

Repeat this prayer every morning and  at night before falling asleep. Or as many times during the day.. that is up to you...

Note: This prayer can be recited for any condition that needs healing...physical, emotional,  psychological,  financial as well as relationship issues.

 You just need to replace knees with whatever condition you need healing for.

Dr.Sonal Chhaya
Modified version of Ho'opponopono....

Wednesday, November 23, 2022

Memories

The ups and downs in life ... the ripples... result in  a wide array of emotions... each playing an important role...With each passing day, these emotions  impact our mind and behavior ... every moment spent leaves an imprint on our subconscious mind which re-surfaces every time we re-collect  an eventof our life. It's like a replay...We re-wind...

These so called emotions trigger hormones in our body which lead us to emote certain reactions  resulting in imprints... These imprints are the so called memories that we cling on to.

Some memories  make us happy
Some make us sad and pained
Some are filled with joyful moments
Some memories make us pensive
Some lead to anger
Some make us envious
Some inspire us
Whereas some pull us down
Some make us question our behavior ...
Memories of losing dear ones is very heartbreaking but  life goes on...

As age advances we tend to forget a lot of things... The power to retain slowly decreases... 

Cherish each moment to create a beautiful imprint  so that whenever we go down the memory lane we are overwhelmed with joy... of days well spent ...😄😁🙂

Wednesday, September 7, 2022

Realizing Dreams

 All of us dream big... very few are able to realize their goals... why? low self esteem? peer pressure? Is the restraint from within or outside?

Identify!!!
make a list...explore the options on how to overcome these hurdles...

The world we live in is actually created by our mind... We get entrapped in our world of thoughts and emotions...the whys and if onlys... We feel being pushed, kind of suppressed or scoffed at and sometimes rebuked... Every event is a case scenario...

But has it ever occurred that our family may not understand our talents and our need to express them...

Often we surrender and get trapped in the nitty gritty around us... There are instances where there is a lot of opposition from within the family... Discuss and reason it out...
 
Put these self created hurdles aside, take a deep breath and leap forward... unleash your talents... fulfill your dreams and desires...
 
Go beyond the boundaries, explore and express... Don't hold back on your dreams, go out and chase after them... Build your nexus... Chart a path for yourself to live your dreams... 
The moment is now...

Friday, July 8, 2022

Rainy Day

 


It's raining and pouring
People are running
Helter and skelter
Stray dogs following suit...
Flashy parasols and raincoats
Flying merrily...
Amidst all chaos
Wind, water and earth
Quenching their thirst
Nature at her best
Colourful glory...
Up above, sky changing clothes
Blue, scarlet, grey, black
clouds hugging
Screaming and screeching
Light and sound
A big bang...
Lovers and birds perched in corners
Hiding from the rain
But for some, it's a season of steaming hot tea, corn and pakoras... 

Monday, June 20, 2022

Ho'opponopono- sharing my experience

Ho'opponopono -I am sorry, Please forgive me, I love you, I thank you  is an age old Hawaiian healing technique followed even today. I call it the forgiveness and letting go technique.

After being introduced to Ho'opponopono, I undertook a 21 day journey of reciting the four lines whilst looking into my eyes through my reflection in the mirror. I used to sing to myself I am sorry, Please forgive me, I love you, I thank you. What seemed very simple at first, led to a series of magical experiences and discoveries.

Initially for a few days nothing happened but as I was getting closer to the 21 day target, something magical transpired. For the first time, feelings of love for myself emanated. I felt very positive, light, calm and peaceful with myself. These feelings were lost somewhere due to the daily hustle and bustle of life. The number of outbursts and the tendency to flare up at petty issues reduced to a great extent. Frustration, depression, and thoughts like nobody understands me nor loves me slowly vanished. Mind you these emotions did come but with timely control and awareness of the turmoil brewing within, these emotions transformed into renewed vitality and kept me pepped up throughout the day.

Next on the list were insecurity and fear. I extended the Ho'opponopono to include I accept you, I respect you, I forgive you. Fear and insecurity transmuted to self confidence. I could accept myself the way I was.

Having experienced this magic, I started experimenting with relationship issues with immediate family and others in general, injurious thought forms created by self or others, physical aches and pains, pride, guilt and jealousy. To my surprise, Ho'opponopono worked beautifully. 

I advised my friends facing relationship and insecurity  issues  to recite Ho'opponopono  the effect was phenomenal. 

What actually happens during continuous practice of chanting the Ho'opponopono is that the chakras (energy centers), meridians (nadis) aura (panchkoshas) is rid of emotional and mental trauma and healed. Waves of love and peace not only envelop you but radiate through you to your surroundings thus creating love and peace within and around you. The more you forgive and surrender the better is the quality of life.

To sum up, Ho'opponopono can be recited for all kinds of situations like self pity, injurious thought forms directed at oneself or others, healing relationships, relieving physical pain, release fear and insecurity, even heartbreaks, weight loss or weight gain due to emotional trauma.

Reciting I am sorry, Please forgive me, I love you, Thank you, I accept you, I respect you, I forgive you for 15 minutes and ending it by hugging oneself allows the emotions to flow like water. Allow yourself to release all the unwanted emotional baggage.

For physical pain, visualise the area concerned and recite the lines.
For relationship issues visualise the individual standing in front of you and then recite. Do visualise hugging the person at the end. 

The best time is just before going to sleep. You need to be patient nothing comes overnight. 

Forgive and you will be forgiven holds true...