Blame Game

Often we find fault in others, we want perfection in everyone and everything.. as though we are perfect in all walks of life…
We need to learn to understand our self.. positive as well as negative outlook /emotions. When we love, appreciate and accept our self with our shortcomings and talents will we be able to love and appreciate others. We always blame others for our misfortunes, we blame our parents, siblings, other family members, friends, teachers, co - workers, seniors. Lastly we blame our destiny and finally GOD. We forget that our thoughts and actions are the cause of our failures and misfortunes. Lack of self confidence makes one envious of others.
Stop the Blame Game Accept Reality!!
Beauty lies in loving yourself . Love your self and with confidence appreciate and accept others. See the beauty in other things around you.
A famous quote “Beauty lies in the eyes of the Beholder”!!

Love and Attachment

Love is an unconditional selfless state of being. Love has no desires nor expectations whereas attachment is a mental state born out of desires and relationships created in our minds. Our thoughts are constantly filled with images and memories which generate a lot of expectations. We start depending on these expectations for our happiness and well being. We forget that when these so called desires and expectations are not met, all the negative emotions set in. In other words we give rise to fear and anger and finally stress and anxiety.
So, dear friends do think, of those special people, of others, when it is necessary but do not lose your self in their image. This will free us from dependency, expectations, false desires and suffering.