Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Responsibility


True meaning of responsibility is our 'Ability to Respond'. However, often we fail to see the impact of our actions on others. The series of responses we create in our interactions with other people & events is immeasurable. Some of these actions create a positive response whereas some create a negative response. These negative responses drain us of our energy. Learn to see connections between actions and results, causes and effects. That is the Law of Karma or Reciprocity.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Meditation

Meditation helps to live in the NOW, the PRESENT AND LEAD A STRESS FREE LIFE . It is a journey, an act of listening, keeping the mind still, feeling the emptiness in full awareness & finally to experience peace , bliss & joy.

Mind is most of the time restless, turbulent, rigid.
Frequently people find themselves bored, anxious, depressed, during the course of meditation. A whirpool of thoughts- wild ideas regarding the past, present and the unknown future haunt constantly making the mind stressed & undisciplined . The emotional attachment to these thoughts enhances negative emotions - anger, rage, frustration, depression & at times unnecessary worry. Contemplating on a single thought leads to series of thoughts bringing with it tremendous turmoil.
The best option is without exerting pressure on the mind, allow the thought, refrain from analyzing & let go of the thought.....In other words let the thought pass away. Be an observer … Every time the mind wanders into the forest of thoughts, return to the point of focus & continue.

Various methods to keep the mind in check during the course of meditation have been suggested ..
1). Focusing your eyes on a single point of light between the eyebrows.
2). Observing the rise & fall of your breath i.e. conscious breathing.
3). Reciting a mantra or sacred words in a focused manner.

As for me, the method I follow is divided into 7 steps.....
1).Sit cross legged on a mat or on a chair with the back straight.
2). Breathe deeply 10 times to steady the nerves & slower down the heart beats.
3).Recite your regular prayer followed by OM 3 times. Prayer steadies the mind & helps to focus.
4). Accept all the sounds around you one at a time.
5). Reflect in your mind that you are at peace, your entire body is at rest & tension free.
6). Centralize & focus on your third eye chakra ie the point between your eyebrows.
7).State of emptiness – Thoughtless Mind - BLISS.

Once you have reached this stage, you may find yourself smiling, full of love, compassion, joyful & happy. How long you wish to remain in this state is upto you to decide.
Tremendous effort & regular practice is necessary to master this stepwise method.
Practice each step & master it, no need to hurry. Initially, on an average it takes about half hour to settle down. But after regular practice, it takes about 10 min.
This method can be used throughout the day to help you remain peaceful, full of joy & happiness. Omit step 3 & forge within. It takes about 1 min.
GOOD LUCK!!!!

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Talents

Every one is gifted with Talents. Inspite of that each is envious of another..
Why be jealous of somebody else’s talents??? Use your talents to the fullest.
Why imitate somebody and live in his/her shadow??? Be you...Be YOURSELF!!!
Each one wants to wear someone’s shoes to move ahead in life..
How is that possible??? You got to wear shoes that fit you best and charge ahead to meet the horizon…There is no limit to it…..

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Need to Laugh

Someday in our life, we experience that everything goes wrong...the morning alarm fails to ring, dog pees on the rug, breakfast burns, bus is missed, reach office late, boss is fretting.... in the bargain we end up grouchy, start losing control and balance, all humour is lost and life suddenly takes its toll. Everything is topsy turvy...At times the road is bumpy, full of jerks leaving us tensed and frustrated.
Laughter helps us to snap out of it in a jiffy. Laughter alleviates all tension and suffering. Even if you are not in a mood to laugh, the act of laughing ie false laughter , alters the mood ,makes us laugh.
Laughter is free, without any side effect.In fact, laughter helps heal ourselves and others too. It brings sunshine into our lives, brightens our outlook. Deep rooted sorrows can be healed with a slight twitch of the facial muscles, a smile and then a hilarious laugh.
Laugh and be merry, let the world laugh with you...

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Attitude

Our attitude defines our life....
Life is best for those who want to live it,difficult for those who want to analyse it, worst for those who want to criticise it.....
Laugh so hard that sorrow smiles at u
Live so well that death loves to see u alive
Fight so hard that fate accepts its defeat.....

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Seed of Enlightenment

Each one of us carries the seed of enlightenment within.We are unable to experience it because we are slaves of our mind...
We are thinkers..Incessant thoughts of our past & future haunt us. We forget that everyone has a past. We should learn from our past, refer to it whenever required & move on, not live with it.
If we look inside within ourself, we will find immense wealth. We search for wealth outside in the physical world. Wealth i.e. love, happiness, bliss, peace. Material wealth is mistaken for true wealth.
The deepest love is spiritual.. Unfortunately, most of us experience ourselves as bodies & consider physical attraction & physical attachment as love...
Inner transformation brings with it a radical change, self realization, inner peace & bliss....